To have a bridal shower? That's been this week's question. So many of my dear friends have offered, but I was still on the fence. Why? I guess all the attention just cause I am getting married feels weird. It's strange cause I love throwing showers, but my own feels like too much. But I know it'll be fun, so yes. I'm just trying to keep it real and not too much work for the people I love. A pot-luck in my backyard seems nice. No gifts. Just balloons, good friends and tasty foods.